How to fix your mind

To fix your mind is the most difficult task in the world but its not impossible. A person gets better at it day by day through practice,it needs you to work on your self and your understanding of things. The society and the environment we grow up in influence us in many ways . Our first task is to get rid of all that baggage and think with a rational and reasoning mind. Our society and our peers teach us many ideas about almost everything. We become so dumbed down that instead of being our unique self we try to behave and be like everybody else just to gain acceptance and their approval of us. You are not here to gain anybody’s approval or acceptance. The only person who needs to accept you is you.
Everything out there nowadays from commercials to movies to music videos try to teach how your perfect life should look like. Even if the people acting in those movies and videos don’t live that life themselves,you are being fed with all that bullshit. And there are mediocres out there trying to copy all that and ruining away their lives. The reality is far different from what is portrayed. This is an age of illusion. Here what is real is made to look false and what is false is made to look real. People have the responsibility to make their own discernment ,that’s why they have been given the gift of reasoning and mind. Why should you be controlled by anything on the outside, the only control you should have must be from inside. You doing things that make you happy and avoiding things that make you unhappy. You are unique ,you don’t have to fit in anyway. You must make crystal clear in your mind what is it you want from your life overall,a general overall view , not a copied version from a movie or anywhere else, then you would not be doing justice to your real emotions.
What kind of people you want around you, what kind of situations you want to be in, you want balance in every aspect of life be it career , relationships , wealth, health ,spirituality or other aspects. What is it that you really desire think about that, what do these things mean to you. Forget about the societal ideas of what success is , what a perfect relationship looks like, or ideas about beauty or anything else for that matter. These are all manmade concepts and they change with every age, they are not constant and their is no validity to these ideas. You must focus on what you think about all this and what is it that makes you happy and fulfilled . That will give you an understanding about what is it that you really want from life. It will atleast start fixing your mind.
Unless you clear your mind of the clutter that has been fed to your brain since childhood you will not be able to get the right inspiration from your heart. Your heart inspires you in every moment. Every moment it tells you this is right for me, this is what I would like to experience , no teacher , preacher or guide can ever tell you what is right for you. It is only you who knows that . Well your heart holds the keys to fix your mind and you should empower it to do so . What’s this life anyway,it’s a one way journey so why should we not follow our heart. May we all be strengthened enough to follow our bliss , to follow our hearts . You are the artist here you are responsible for what you ask from life. Don’t let anybody else paint on your canvas without your permission . Amen to that prayer ❤